CASE STUDY:
When Your Child Is Mean When Others Touch Their Stuff
This case study includes a “quick action” tip for how to handle meanness now, and an example of how to work through the 4R Formula for more long-lasting results.
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Overview
Watch the video below for a quick explanation of how to make best use of this case study
The Short-Term Solution
Here’s a suggestion for what to do RIGHT now.
This isn’t a long-term fix, but it should give you a little temporary relief!
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THE 4R METHOD
for long-term improvement in behavior, moods, and attitudes
REFLECT on the Situation
RESPOND Effectively In the Moment
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Click here to review the “Respond” step of the 4R Method
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Script: When Your Child Is Mean When Others Touch Their Stuff
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Say This, Not That When Responding to Meanness
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Create ROUTINES for Long-Term Results
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Click here to review the “Routines” step of the 4R Method
ROUTINES MENTIONED IN THIS CASE STUDY
Yuck Dumps
Deposit into Emotional Needs Account: Significance
Teach a tool: How to think flexibly / solve problems
Teach a tool: How to handle discomfort / cope maturely