Your Child Melts Down When They Lose
This case study includes a “quick action” tip for how to handle meltdowns now, and an example of how to work through the 4R Formula for more long-lasting results.
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The Short-Term Solution
Here’s a suggestion for what to do RIGHT now.
This isn’t a long-term fix, but it should give you a little temporary relief!
THE 4R METHOD
for long-term improvement in behavior, moods, and attitudes
REFLECT on the Situation
RESPOND Effectively In the Moment
Script: Child Melts Down When They Lose
Say This, Not That When Responding to Negotiating
Create ROUTINES for Long-Term Results
ROUTINES MENTIONED IN THIS CASE STUDY
Teach a Tool: How to handle discomfort / cope maturely
Teach a tool: Think flexibly/solve problems
Desposit into Emotional Needs Account: Significance
Joint Problem Solving