CASE STUDY:
When Your Child Negotiates When You Set a Rule
This case study includes a “quick action” tip for how to handle negotiating now, and an example of how to work through the 4R Formula for more long-lasting results.
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Overview
Watch the video below for a quick explanation of how to make best use of this case study
The Short-Term Solution
Here’s a suggestion for what to do RIGHT now.
This isn’t a long-term fix, but it should give you a little temporary relief!
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THE 4R METHOD
for long-term improvement in behavior, moods, and attitudes

REFLECT on the Situation

RESPOND Effectively In the Moment
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Click here to review the “Respond” step of the 4R Method
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Script: Child Negotiates When You Set a Rule
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Say This, Not That When Responding to Negotiating
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Create ROUTINES for Long-Term Results
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Click here to review the “Routines” step of the 4R Method
CREATING ROUTINES
Teach a Tool: How to persist in boring tasks
Teach a Tool: How to handle discomfort / cope maturely
Deposit into Emotional Needs Account: Control
Desposit into Emotional Needs Account: Significance
Yuck Dumps
Joint Problem Solving