When Your Child Negotiates When You Set a Rule
This case study includes a “quick action” tip for how to handle negotiating now, and an example of how to work through the 4R Formula for more long-lasting results.
Start by watching the video overview, and then download your resources.
The Short-Term Solution
Here’s a suggestion for what to do RIGHT now.
This isn’t a long-term fix, but it should give you a little temporary relief!
THE 4R METHOD
for long-term improvement in behavior, moods, and attitudes
REFLECT on the Situation
RESPOND Effectively In the Moment
Create ROUTINES for Long-Term Results
Teach a Tool: How to persist in boring tasks
Teach a Tool: How to handle discomfort / cope maturely
Deposit into Emotional Needs Account: Control
Desposit into Emotional Needs Account: Significance
Joint Problem Solving