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SCRIPT: How To Give Your Teen Age-Appropriate Control

by rachelb | Dec 13, 2019 | Communicating With Teens

SCENARIO  Mia has asked her son James to start putting away his phone at 11PM. She’s had a conversation with him where she really tried to see his point of view. Even so, she’s not changing her boundary and wants to give James a little bit of control over...

SCRIPT: How To Treat Your Teen With Respect Even If You Don’t Agree With Them

by rachelb | Dec 13, 2019 | Communicating With Teens

SCENARIO  Mia has asked her son James to start putting away his phone at 11PM. When she first told him, he was upset. Mia is revisiting the conversation with him.   Mia: James, I know you’re upset that we’re going to be putting our phones away at 11. ...

SCRIPT: How To Not Get Sucked into Your Teens’ Yuck

by rachelb | Dec 13, 2019 | Communicating With Teens

SCENARIO  Mia is talking to her son James about the fact that she doesn’t want him to keep his phone in his room every night. Instead, she wants him to bring it downstairs at 11PM.  Mia: I know you’ve been keeping your phone in your room at night....

4R Response Method

  • Introduction
    • Download workbook for “Introduction”
    • Lesson 1: Band Aid Parenting vs. Long Game Parenting (04:56)
    • Lesson 2: The Yuck Factor (09:02)
    • Lesson 3: How It All Works (06:16)
  • Reduce Your Yuck
    • Download workbook for “Reduce Your Yuck”
    • Lesson 4: What Causes Yuck + Your Past (07:04)
    • Lesson 5: The Future (06:37)
    • Lesson 6: Your Present (07:18)
    • Make Your Plan to Reduce Your Yuck (06:01)
  • Identify Roadblocks
    • Download workbook for “Identify Roadblocks”
    • Lesson 8: The Reasons for Negative Behavior, Moods, and Attitudes (05:07)
    • Lesson 9: Expectations Roadblocks (07:10)
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    • Lesson 11: Skill-Based Roadblocks (07:05)
    • Make Your Plan to Identify Roadblocks (06:27)
  • Respond Effectively
    • Download workbook for “Respond Effectively”
    • Lesson 12: What’s In Your Control
    • Lesson 13: Regulate (08:50)
    • Lesson 14: Care About the Roadblock (06:14)
    • Lesson 15: Let them Round the Curve (11:40)
    • Make Your Plan to Respond Effectively (04:46)
  • Schedule Routines
    • Download workbook for “Schedule Routines”
    • Lesson 16: Scheduling Routines (04:16)
    • Make Your Plan to Schedule Routines (06:36)
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