March 2020: This roadmap has updated and simplified.
You can now use it to create a personalized plan for motivating more responsible behavior.
(If you were working through the old roadmap and need access to it, email me at [email protected].)
FIRST: Print out the workbook, which includes a template for your personalized plan and all the
information you need to go through the step-by-step roadmap below.
THEN: Click on the steps (tabs) below to build your plan
Watch this brief introduction to “Your Long Game Plan for Motivating More Responsible Behavior.”
Step 1: Identify the issue you want to address. Here’s how:
Go to page 4 of your workbook for a summary of & instructions for Step 1.
Then fill in your plan on page 11.
Step 2: Understand the cause of the behavior. Here’s how:
Go to page 5 of your workbook for a summary of & instructions for Step 2.
Then fill in your plan on page 11.
Step 3: Identify what they need to be successful. Here’s how:
Go to page 6 of your workbook for a summary of & instructions for Step 3.
Then fill in your plan on page 11.
Step 4: With your child(ren), create an enforceable plan. Here’s how:
Go to page 8 of your workbook for a summary of & instructions for Step 4.
Then fill in your plan on page 11.
Step 5: Handle the behavior in the moment. Here’s how:
Go to page 9 of your workbook for a summary of & instructions for Step 5.
Then fill in your plan on page 11.
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